These days, more and more kids are growing up without both parents living together. Families are more open to this scenario and many divorced couples can still manage to set their differences aside for the sake of their kids. Sometimes, marriages just can’t work despite fighting so hard to keep it. Although young children will soon understand why you and your spouse never lasted, it’s a different story if infidelity is involved.
Each bad decision you make that you know will destroy your relationship with your husband or wife will leave an even bigger hole in the hearts of the kids. Things will never be the same. Cheating means it’s okay to destroy your children’s lives.
Here are 7 ways you’re hurting your kids when you decide to be unfaithful.
#1. Children will likely grow up to become unfaithful to their spouses.
A clinical psychologist said that about 55 percent of children coming from families where one of the parents has cheated will likely become cheaters in their adulthood. Your child sees you as a role model and whatever you do, even if it’s wrong, is fine in their eyes.
#2. Children can feel the worst betrayal.
It’s bad enough to get betrayed by a boyfriend, friend or even relatives, but none can be more hurtful than being betrayed by a parent. If you’ve betrayed your kids by cheating on your partner, what else could you do to fail them?
#3. Children learn not to trust anyone.
Seventy-five percent of children who have unfaithful parents usually have trust issues, according to Huffington Post. This can affect their future relationships since trust is an important ingredient to make things work.
#4. They will grow up with insecurities.
Children who have seen a parent abandoning the other will tend to develop insecurities and grow up with fear of abandonment. In the future, these people are those that tend to push away others who have shown them genuine love and care, fearing that they’ll end up leaving at some point.
#5. They find it hard to believe in love.
Since children with unfaithful parents usually have trust issues, it will be hard for them to find a healthy and lasting relationship built on love.
#6. They end up choosing sides.
Children will feel compelled to choose sides when one parent decide to be unfaithful. It is important for children to have both parents with them.
#7. The emotional damage can last for a long time.
The damage brought about by an unfaithful parent does not end when the couple splits. The pain from the betrayal will linger on for a very long time.
If you have kids, think carefully about every decision you make, especially when you decide to cheat on your spouse.
Chinese Man Buys 5,000 Bowls Of Noodles After Restaurant Finds His $45,000 Engagement Ring
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Mr. Wang had been planning to do a surprise marriage proposal to his girlfriend on their first-year anniversary. To make sure that everything goes smooth, he had been doing plenty of preparations the day ahead the engagement. However, while he was having his lunch on Sunday, he moved away from his seat where his bag and the engagement ring were to take a call from his girlfriend.
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Adorable 3-Year-Old Girl Teaches The Internet How To Change Car’s Oil
She has her own YouTube series dedicated to her awesome fix-it skills.
The internet loves ingenious kids who can recite the capitals of all of the world’s countries, cook and bake like a seasoned chef, or speak in several languages. One toddler puts all of her contemporaries, and a majority of adults to shame with her particular set of skills. This little three-year-old is a better car mechanic than some older people!
Known only as the “Little How-To Girl,” this wee blonde prodigy already has a series of videos showing her genius mechanic skills many adults have difficulty figuring out.
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Schizophrenic Lady Uses Art To Illustrate Hallucination And Break Stigma On Mental Illness
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Most people would see mental illness as a serious disorder. Some would even stay away from the mentally ill, thinking they might suddenly go violent. This misunderstanding has sadly become a fact for the past couple of decades, making those who suffer feel like outcasts in the society.
What we certainly don’t realize is that what these “special” people really need are acceptance, patience and understanding from those of us around them. But these people are also blessed. They may not have it all but they have things about themselves that they can also boast about. For instance, their strength to face a world that criticizes them and another is their talents which are surprisingly admirable.
To prove that, an 18-year-old lady stepped forward to talk about her schizophrenia and her coping mechanism....
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