What’s in a name?
When you die, what would you want your loved ones to write on your headstone? How would you like them to describe you?
People associate our most distinct characteristics and attitudes with our names. What do you think comes to your colleagues, friends, or relatives’ mind whenever your name pops during conversations? Do they think you’re “Blake the courageous?” “Peter the godly?” “Honest Tess?”
Do you have a good reputation or a bad one? Why does it even matter, anyway?
We cannot dictate nor control what other people think or say about us. Some would probably even say that they don’t care whether others like them or not. But the fact remains that we don’t live alone on an island. We live in a society where we need connections—good friends, in particular, that would be there when we need a helping hand. Wouldn’t life be harder if the people around you think you’re mean, dishonest, unreliable, or wicked?
The story below is one perfect example of why it is vital to have a good reputation.
“My Dad taught me many lessons growing up, he spoke to me about honesty, respect, and honor. One day when I was a young man I ran out of fuel in my car.
I was a few miles from home and without a penny. I walked into a pub and asked if I could use their phone to get my Dad to come and collect me. They told me there was a payphone in the corner. I asked if they had 25 cents so I could make the call and they obliged.
My Dad came, and the following day I picked up my car. When I got home from work the next day, my Dad asked me if I had stopped off to repay the 25 cents I had borrowed. I told him, ‘No’ as I had not borrowed the money but they had just given it to me, and it was only 10p.
He told me to pop in and return it, then he told me why:
‘If you don’t return that 25 cents no one will mind, no one will even notice. However, if you make an effort to return that 25 cents, then, they will notice your actions, they will all notice. They will see that you are an honest man and they will remember you and your good example. If you ever need a favor again they will be happy to help you.’
He went on to say, ‘It takes a lifetime to build a good reputation, but only a moment to lose it.’ He was in business for years and was very respected by all. Now he is living with me and my family because he needs constant care.
People don’t talk much these days about honor and the value of a good name, but I am proud of my good name and thankful to my Dad for it.”
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The principal got it wrong.
Sometimes, the most amusing conversations occur between a child and an adult. When you listen to them intently, you’ll notice the difference between the way they see and analyze certain things.
Although some children have overactive imaginations, you can still expect an innocent, straightforward answer when you ask them specific questions. Most of us adults, however, aren’t like that. Perhaps, our way of thinking have been mostly influenced by our experiences and inclinations. And it’s funny because sometimes, as our imaginations run away with us, words start to have double meanings.
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Man Writes To His Dad Who Abandoned Him After His Mom Died When He Was 2 Yrs Old
“When she died… I spent three days in that apartment, eating toast and just waiting for her to wake up.”
According to UNICEF, in 2004, there were more than 143 million orphaned and abandoned children in 93 developing countries worldwide. Most of these kids end up in the foster homes. They are waiting for new parents who would treat them as their own and make them a part of their family.
Sadly, not all kids are fortunate to find themselves a loving home, and many innocent children are abused within the foster care system. Although it’s quite impossible to determine the figure, several horrifying news emerged about young boys and girls who’ve suffered or died in the hands of their foster parents.
Reddit user justjackson was once one of those boys. His biological mom was a drug addict, and his father was never around. At two years of age, he had gotten used to his mom passing out for long periods of time. Until one day, she didn’t wake up anymore.
Remember That Viral Starving Kid in Nigeria? Look At His Incredible Transformation
There’s hope for humanity after all.
The story of the Danish woman who saves abandoned children in Nigeria brought focus to the heartbreaking situation of a 2-year old kid who was left to die of hunger in the streets. This kid, who was just one of the countless children punished and abandoned by their families because they are considered as "witches" and accused of killing their parents or siblings, was found roaming in the streets by social aid worker Anja Ringgren Loven of Denmark.
He was rescued on January 31, 2016. This shocking photo of Loven giving water and biscuits to the emaciated kid made headlines.
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