How do you react when your toddler or preschooler throws a tantrum? Are you usually patient or do you often lose your cool, too? Although the former is the ideal response, let’s face it – it’s generally easier to be impatient, especially if you’ve had a long day and are terribly tired.
One mother, however, claims it is possible to stay tolerant of youngsters’ outburtsts – and she speaks from experience. You see, Shauna Harvey is a mother to a preschool-age kid she describes as “testy” and yet, she has found a brilliant parenting hack she shared on social media.
Like most parents, Shauna Harvey fels she often reaches her limits.
She wrote on a Facebook post:
“I’ve found myself so incredibly stressed out, I beat my head against the wall daily because I don’t understand why my 4-year-old-insists on being disrespectful and a non-listener. I was to the point of crying at least every other day.”
Fortunately, she found a good solution.
According to Shauna, she spotted an idea from Idealist Mom’s Kelly Holmes. The said mommy blogger explained that most parents, whether they admit it or not, have developed the “bad habit of reacting to our kids’ behavior with sharp words or loud voices” but things do not have to stay that way.
Kelly Holmes’ “5 Hair Ties” technique is quite helpful for anyone who wants to control their temper.
As Shauna explained:
“I wore 5 rubber bands on my wrist from the time I got up, to the time I tucked him in just now. The 5 rubber bands represent every time you lose your cool or say something unkind to your child. Every time that happens, you move one band to the other wrist. To “gain the band back”, you must do 5 kind/positive things with your child (dance party, singing a song together, reading together, etc).
“I read that science shows for every bad reaction, it takes 5 POSITIVE reactions to regain a positive relationship. I’m going to be using this method until it becomes a habit and basically turns into an auto pilot ritual.”
The result has so far been life-changing for Shauna.
“I have finished the day with all 5 bands on the original wrist. I’m very proud of myself for exercising patience with him.”
Numerous netizens have been enthusiastic about the idea and have even suggested other ways it can be applied.
One Jean Hilkin pointed out:
“Wonderful idea that can be used for any intense relationship as in dealing with elderly, dementia family members…”
Another Trystan Smith wrote:
“I heard somewhere recently you can do something similar every time you complain…. or every time you say something negative about yourself. Any bad habit I guess.”
“I’m glad that this is helping so many of you guys,” Shauna later wrote. “We’re all human, we lose our cool, but as parents, it’s our job to re route and be examples to our children!”
20 No Equipment Exercises You Can Do At Home If You’re Too Busy For The Gym
No time to hit the gym? No worries! These no equipment workouts are perfect for you.
Don’t have time to hit the gym? Well, that’s not a valid excuse if you really want to be fit and healthy. As the old saying goes, there is always a way if you have the will. Besides, in addition to traditional means of exercising, there are actually other fun, inexpensive ways of getting your muscles moving and finally losing those much-dreaded body fats.
Couples, for example, can take advantage of intimate time and do the so-called sexercise positions. That way, both partners can workout (and literally sweat it out) at the same time.
For those who are single or at least for those who are unwilling to spend money on home gym equipment, listen up....
Does Mango Make Your Mouth Itch? There’s a Weird Reason Behind It!
The condition is called “mango mouth.”
People who don't like mangoes are a rarity. With its delightfully sweet taste, soft texture, and vitamin content, the mango has become one of the world's most popular fruits. But there ARE people who shy away from eating mangoes, not because they don't like the taste, but because the fruit makes their mouths itch!
The condition is called "mango mouth," which produces an itchy and tingly sensation when the fruit makes contact with the mouth. This happens to people with mango allergy; their mouth can't tolerate the chemical called urushiol.
The mango peel and the fruit directly underneath it have high concentrations of urushiol.
The 400-Year-Old Mousetrap is Truly Brilliant In Its Simplicity
This is probably the simplest solution you have for a more humane way of catching mice.
If you have a mice problem in your house, you may find yourself in this classic dilemma - how to catch mice without killing or hurting them. The common mousetrap that all of us are surely familiar with is an effective tool, but the snapping motion can hurt the mouse real bad.
Now this really old mousetrap, we mean old as in 400 years old, is probably the simplest solution you have for a more humane way of catching mice. What makes it even more awesome is that fact that you need only two items that you will normally find in your kitchen.