Who doesn’t remember the Oscar-nominated rom-com film “Pretty Woman”? Julia Roberts’ challenging role as a Los Angeles prostitute had several prestigious award-giving bodies notice her superior acting abilities and had rightfully given her the best actress award. But her portrayal as Vivian Ward wouldn’t be justified of course if Richard Gere, who played the role of Edward Lewis, a wealthy, ruthless businessman, hadn’t given his best as her love interest.
It was modern-day Cinderella movie and I bet most women (with the exception of being a hooker) would want to be in Vivian’s shoes. Just imagine being pursued by a man as influential, extremely wealthy, and as dashingly handsome as Edward and be lavished with expensive clothes and jewelry at the same time. And when Edward fell in love with Vivian? He treated her like a princess and he never looked back on her past. He truly loved her and they had their happily ever after.
Cory Standby, 49, must have wanted to find love again the way Edward did.
He had multiple, sexual relationships with several women including strippers; however, he claimed that he also wanted to “save” them. Standby admitted that it all happened when his 13-year marriage broke down.
But he also blamed his so-called “Pretty Woman Complex” to mid-life crisis.
A midlife crisis occurs in individuals 40-60 years of age. It is a transitional period wherein most men and women usually feel that they need to make significant life changes. Although some people manage to go through this stage with ease and without having the urge to make drastic life decisions, unfortunately for some, the crisis is more complicated.
This former litigation lawyer earned a six-figure salary.
He went to the University of Leeds Law School where he met his ex-wife; they had four children together. Standby worked for a top law firm in London, but his wife is as successful as he was. He was working in London then while his family stayed in Woking, Surrey. When his marriage fell apart, he said that he started behaving like a teenager again– a very rich teenager for that matter. The transition wasn’t really difficult since he rarely saw his family even before the separation.
He had an affair with his secretary, with women outside his work, and with strippers.
Standby spent thousands every night on strip clubs and had casual sex, one-night-stands, and actual relationships with those women. He worked 12 hours daily and would stay up until 5 a.m. to party.
Mt Standby, pictured as a teenager.
Sadly, his many escapades did not lead him to his “Vivian”– that woman who could help him be a better person just like what Vivian was able to do for Edward in the movie. Instead, he felt alone and lonely. He said, “Although I craved the sex and wild parties, no amount of them can really replace the need for a close relationship.”
At 18 he left his parents’ home in Oxford to go to university where he met his ex-wife.
“Life isn’t the same without the right person to share it,”, he added.
People told him that he should’ve stayed with his wife and had an affair with her instead. But then again, he attributed his wild behavior and attitude as a part of his midlife crisis.
Although it turned out to be an unfulfilling experience, Standby learned more about himself and about relationships. This inspired him to write and publish a book entitled, “50!- The Life, Loves, Psyches Of A Male Midlife Crisis,” which chronicled his life starting from his early childhood up to his current life. Through this book, Standby hopes to share his life lessons to people who are facing the same ordeal.
“I would say to others if you think you can save your marriage, then do. Don’t just throw it away”
17 Cheaters Who Totally Got PWNED Online By Their Savage Partners
These cheaters totally learned their lessons the hard way.
So, he’s cheated on you and what do you do? As lame as it sounds, victims of polygamous relationships are oftentimes guilty of stuffing their hips and thighs with excessive carbs and sugar, procrastinating with the chick-flick sentimental Titanic’s “I’ll never let go, Jack, I’ll never let go”, and admit it or not, still waiting for the real loser who cheated over someone with the words “I’m sorry and I want you back.”
THAT WAS THEN. Thanks to the oh-so-good spirit, women of today are best described to be as how Katy Perry would say it, WIDE AWAKE. Among the women who deserve a salute include these women who posted their rants and even exposed their cheating partners for everyone’s festivity. Mind you, cheaters out there, your partner might just serve you what you rightfully deserve!
#1. Cheating 101. Never, ever get caught off-guard. Unless you want to be the prey, then better stay vigilant with the predator.
This Marine Corps Platoon Silent Drill Performance Has Got Jaws Dropping! Amazing!
And we think all they know is fire guns and battle in wars.
Being part of the marine, army or navy is a privilege and a sacrifice that deserves high respect. They are the bravest, strongest and most noble people we can ever meet. We know them for fighting during war and protecting citizens from harm. We look at them as stiff individuals who only break the lines when being commanded by their seniors. We always see them in a synchronized fashion, which we think is unbelievably amazing.
Another evidence of their limitless talent is the traditional exhibition drills performed by what is dubbed as the "Marching Twenty-Four". This group is composed of 24 members from the United States Marine Corps Silent Drill Platoon who perform silent drill routines to show the values that their agency imbibes - discipline and professionalism. Although it was only meant to be a one-time performance back in 1948, the public kept on clamoring for more and so it has become a tradition.
Watch their amazing showcase of precision, organization and attention to detail with this clip performed with the Blue Angels:...
Son Tells the Heartbreaking Story of His Mom’s Battle with Dementia in Photos
“This is what dementia looks like.”
A 31-year-old man gave the world a peek on how the early onset of dementia looks like in a series of photos he posted on Reddit. The heartbreaking story of his mom’s gradual deterioration since 2007 has quickly gained a lot of attention online.
Jake Heath from Sydney shared 11 photos of his 58-year-old mom Jaquie, who started showing symptoms of Pick’s disease 10 years ago. Initially Jaquie’s confusion and emotional changes were misdiagnosed as menopause and she was only diagnosed with dementia in 2007.
Most families struggle when a family member suffers from this brain disease and the Heath family is no different....