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Cashier Patiently Assisting an Old Woman Gave an Eye Opening Lesson to His Customers





Most of the time we are pre occupied by our responsibilities as well as by piled up things we need to accomplish every day.

It’s vital to enjoy every moment and be patient when things don’t turn out the way we expected it to be.

Life is not only about the future and the past; it is also about making things right and wonderful at present. Patience can make you avoid doing hasty decisions or insensible judgment. It can help us triumph over disappointment and could make us see wonders and lessons from little and great things.

Through tolerance and patience we are able to reflect about the situation carefully and make us perceive the bigger picture of a situation.

A story of Sarah Owen Bigler will show us how patience works for her and her daughter in an unexpected way. She posted her inspiring story on her Facebook page.

Sarah Bigler posted this:


“Yesterday Matt was sick. I picked up Archie from the sitter and Eloise from school and decided to run to Target for a few things. I had hoped to be in and out quickly.

I found a line with just one person ahead of me and began organizing my items on the conveyor. After placing my items, I look up to see that the person ahead of me was an elderly woman. She was paying for her items with change and wanted to purchase each separately.

Part of me, the part that had a long day at work, the part of me who had a 1 1/2 year old having a melt down in the cart, the part that had set an unnecessary timeline for Target and getting home, was frustrated with this woman and the inconvenience she had placed on me.

BUT then I watched the young employee with this woman. I watched him help her count her change, ever so tenderly taking it from her shaking hands. I listened to him repeatedly saying “yes, mam” to her. When she asked if she had enough to buy a reusable bag, he told her she did and went two lines over to get one for her and then repackaged her items. Never once did this employee huff, gruff or roll his eyes. He was nothing but patient and kind.”

“As I was watching him, I saw that Eloise was too. She was standing next to the woman, watching the employee count the change.

I realized I hadn’t been inconvenienced at all. That my daughter was instead witnessing kindness and patience and being taught this valuable lesson by a complete stranger; furthermore, I realized that I too needed a refresher on this lesson.

When the woman was finished, the employee began ringing up my items and thanked me for my patience. I then thanked him for teaching us patience and kindness by his treatment of that elderly woman.

And although my timeline for target was askew, when he was finished I pushed my cart through the store trying to find the manager.

I wanted her to know of the employee’s, kindness and patience, and how much it meant to me. After tracking her down and sharing the story with her, we left Target with a cart full of consumable items, but what is more a heart full of gratitude for such an invaluable lesson.

If you are ever in the Glendale Target, give Ishmael a smile and a nod. The world could use more people like him.
It’s nice that this simple gesture of the cashier made a stranger realized the value of patience.”

Yesterday Matt was sick. I picked up Archie from the sitter and Eloise from school and decided to run to Target for a…

Posted by Sarah Owen Bigler on Wednesday, January 13, 2016

Sometimes we really just have to pause for awhile and have a break from our busy world, to realize and notice the wonderful things around us.

These little acts of kindness and patience are good inspiration and examples especially for children who are observing. These children are our future; let us continue showing them proper character traits by being a good role model.

Don’t forget to SHARE this to your friends and family! Remember both great and little acts of kindness are eye opener for young children and adults!

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